What the F
I’ve been trying to get to the core message of my work and how I’m here to truly serve it up for you. I’ve been feeling these questions in my heart for YEARS… “what is it that I deeply know about this very particular kind of love YOU are experiencing through masculine and feminine energy?”, and “how am I here to serve your heart, your body and your soul through this silent struggle?”
It’s clear to me YOUR DEEPEST TRUTH is here to change EVERYTHING… and it WILL… I promise… but I guess that’s both good news AND bad news… which is why many of the women I support aren’t telling their truth. FULLY. yet!
Let’s talk about the psychology of it from the deep feminine perspective…
When the deep feminine in a woman does not feel loved or FULL-FILLED she will subconsciously “fill herself” up by stuffing herself with…food, shopping, collecting, hoarding, binging, obsessing, fixating, worrying, stagnating, clicking, scrolling… 💆🏼♀️
All of these behaviours reveal TWO things about a woman
1. She’s not EMBODYING HER truth or true power FULLY.
AND
2. Powerful, deep, mature masculine energy is absent in her (pun intended 😉) and her life.
Whenever a woman tells me she doesn’t know why she can’t stop trying to fill herself up with stuff, I know the real culprit is the absence of embodied truth + appropriate power + meaningful masculinity in her life.
The problem for the deep feminine is that she has mostly experienced being “penetrated” by the masculine in either painful, shallow or substanceless ways. Deep down her experience of the masculine has never been “enough”. Something about the masculine energy in her life has always been MIA.
Her yearning to be penetrated FULLY by masculine energy is the CORE DESIRE for the feminine who is clear that relationship and intimacy is her preferred container for personal growth.
Your work however, feminine, is to know if you are feeding or fuelling, that thing that needs to be attended to with mature masculinity.
It’s your responsibility to identify if your preferred filling of choice is feeding or fuelling, something in you that the masculine refuses to fulfil in himself and in you.
If you suspect that either of the above is true then I am here to serve you up something HEALTHIER, HEARTIER and HIGHER in my work with you so that FULLNESS is always your FEELING. Ooooh yes, can you feeeeeel that????!!
You just want to live in your DEEPEST TRUTH right?! To receive it, to radiate it, to luxuriate in it, to revel in it, to romp around in ecstasy with it. And YES you know it will get even juicer and deep with mature masculinity in the mix too, so my next question is this…are you READY????
Because if you wish to love and be loved with the brakes off, you better be! Am I right? All true? All you? Well, let’s get the home fires burning then!
Because here’s the thing… we can’t deny that you have been wounded by the kind of masculine energy that wants you but not FULLY. Masculine energy that “takes” you but never FULLY. Masculine energy that loves you but not FULLY. Masculine energy that consciously withholds Love from you out of fear. Masculine energy that penetrates you… but never FULLY. And it’s as painful to them as it is to you… and you are both suffering. Let’s resolve that starting right now… shall we?!
They KNOW that over the course of many years and relationships, they have never let themselves get anywhere close to entering FULLY into deep feminine energy. It’s their second biggest fear… aside from never finding FREEEEDOM from the world and its lengthy list of assumed responsibilities and expectations of them.
In response the feminine energy closes. And the most painful thing the feminine energy experiences is a kind of involuntary shut down response in heart and body when she knows it’s not safe to love her man FULLY with her heart and her body wide OPEN.
Have you noticed that you can literally tell if a women has soul shaking intimacy in her life?!? You know because you can feel it through her body, her energy, her sensuality, her open-heartedness, her wildishness, her fire, her playfulness, her gaze, her mysterious edge, her softness… and you’ve felt her within you too… in glimpses and glimmers… but if you resonate with my work you know that you want her with you FOR GOOD!!
She craves a mate who will release her from the necessary practice of closing herself off from his impotent masculinity. She craves a masculine who no longer fears deep femininity… her spirit, her magic her mystique, her depth, her wild energy, her devotional love. He fears how much he’s called to her, how effortlessly he worships her. Yet he fears that SHE will somehow devour HIM… when all she craves is to be devoured, claimed, taken, penetrated fully by his deepest, rawest masculinity.
She wants to feel HIS energy unflinchingly penetrating HERS… FEARLESS and BOUNDLESS.
This kind of exchange is both His & Hers. It’s innate but uninitiated for many and it requires full acquisition of your personal power to merge seamlessly in this dance of shared surrender.
Side note he KNOWS that this is what he’s never been able to FULLY deliver on with any woman he’s been with. And he knows HE stands in the way of his most powerful masculinity… because he also knows that until he can fearlessly and FULLY love a woman with everything he’s got, holding nothing back, he can’t ever be SPENT. Can’t ever be in the nothingness he craves. Can’t ever feel the relief from his tensions that he needs. Can’t ever feel the ecstasy of fully releasing himself, body and soul, into her… with everything he’s got. He can never get to that thing he wants more than anything else… FREEDOM. ZERO. EMPTY. GOD. He always wants to get to the consciousness of NOTHINGNESS where he can finally feel free in his mind and body, of tension, pressure, obligation, constriction, limitation and FEAR.
To get there, he must do two things in this order
1. Commit FULLY to his MASCULINE purpose
2. Commit FULLY to his #1 FEMININE He must GIVE to her what he wants to RECEIVE.
If he wants freedom, he must FREE her up to FULLY RECEIVE him in what he needs to GIVE. But he worries that if he should come FULLY to her, she won’t let him in and he knows why… and so the fearful opening and closing cycles with the masculine and the feminine continue.
His work is to FREE her with his LOVE.
His work is to ZERO in on her FULLY.
His work is to FILL her to achieve his desired EMPTINESS.
Her work is to remain OPEN when he closes.
Her work is to LOVE fully with her body.
Her work is to FLOW with her heart.
Deep masculinity recognises that deep femininity is essential in his life…
Deep femininity recognises that deep masculinity is essential in her life…
The path of intimacy cannot be worked or walked alone if your container for personal growth is passionate fidelity to your higher purpose…
That’s why many in this awakened consciousness feel so stuck without their counterpart energetic match.
This is not a shallow or co-dependent neediness to be loved but a deep response to love as the pathway to heaven on earth.
And for the masculine who knows he’s here to experience personal growth through sexual intimacy with his woman in passionate fidelity the call of the deep feminine is IRRESISTABLE. It calls him to his deepest freedoms, his life purpose, his higher calling, his mission.
But until the masculine is ready for their own deepening they will offer you silence, space, separation, surface offers and shallow penetration.
Feminine, you are not here to diminish your calling to be fully claimed by secure masculinity. You are not here to shut down your heart or body to love. Instead you are here to recognise the kind of masculine presence that you may permit in your life right now and to rediscover how to go deeper with yourself.
Your biggest work is to keep your heart and your body wide open, making love to life in everything you do, flowing your feminine frequency fiercely and maintaining Love as your innate state of being.
Yes the masculine knows they could free your heart by freeing their own but until that is readily available to both of you, YOU are called to be readily available to your own heart and body and love-flow.
That’s where I come in! Because the space, silence, solitude and separation you feel right now is a sincere gift from the masculine. It is a sanctuary of self-development and if you are suffering in that sweetness we’ve got work to do!!
Let talk about what the F you need to tell the truth about and flow fiercely with. Let’s fill that deep feminine void with allllllll the good stuff!
✅ ⭐️ You’ve just completed some serious self-care reading to this point 🥳
Hungry for more?? You can begin here https://www.clarewilds.com/begin.html
You have no idea how much I want you to CLAIM this work FULLY, in precisely the ways you want to be CLAIMED OPEN FULLY by him.
I love you, Clare